I hadn't looked at that valve either. That valve is what you need to control the loader only. It has 2 spools so 2 cylinders or pairs of cylinders can be controlled by it.
On your loader you have two sets of cylinders, one for the main lift one for the tilt. Plumb this valve to those two functions. Personally I would mount this valve on the right side of the machine and operate it with my right hand for the loader control.
